For the sake of your son, do not divorce. The courts would favor Catherine and your good influence would be lost. Catherine is devoted to him and it would devastate a boy his age to be shuffled between parents. You aren’t the first person to regret their choice of spouse. I understand. Many times, I have wished for my big brother’s ear, but we are both grown now and can muddle through if we have to. Remember that I am only a couple of hours away and I would meet you at any time if you needed me.